from rollo’s site:
When looking for a life partner, my advice to women is date all of them: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment-phobic boys, the crazy boys. But do not marry them. The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants an equal partner. Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Someone who values fairness and expects or, even better, wants to do his share in the home. These men exist and, trust me, over time, nothing is sexier.
― Sheryl Sandberg, Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead
read that again.
yeah, exactly. she explains game very well.
the things that make a bad boy sexy is that he DOES NOT treat a woman as his equal. he DOES NOT treat her fairly. he does not want her to be smart or ambitious — and THAT is what makes him sexy. basically, he is selfish and arrogant, and just uses her for his sexual pleasure. #gamerecognized
but don’t worry betas! all that stuff you excel at, like doing the dishes, picking up your dirty socks around the house, being nice to women, treating them as equals, fighting for feminist causes — all that stuff is admittedly BORING to hot girls in their early 20s, but once they hit their late 30s, they will find it very attractive! over time, remember! just wait it out! #ihopeyoulikewrinkles
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buy the book! i hear she has a chapter on negs.
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