What would I say?

what would i say to this?

A girl recently asked me in a bar one night who did I prefer best: Van Halen with David Lee Roth or Van Halen with Sammy Hagar? I answered David Lee Roth. She said: “Good, because if you answered Sammy Hagar I would have walked away. Now i know what kind of man you are. Van Halen makes sissy music with Hagar.”

if i was in that situation, the conversation would go like this:

girl: who did you prefer, Van Halen with David Lee Roth or Van Halen with Sammy Hagar?

me: david lee roth, definitely. [giving my honest, gut answer]

girl: Good, because if you answered Sammy Hagar I would have walked away. Now i know what kind of man you are. Van Halen makes sissy music with Hagar

me: oh, a girl with standards, i like that. [genuine smile] tell me more.

honestly, that’s what i would say, at least ideally. she just said that she liked me, i am going to take that and enjoy it, revel in it, enjoy it like a warm shower, and meet her one on one, naked, her interest, my interest, her curiosity, my curiosity. this is called *achieving a connection*. tasting her, like yohami says.

genuine.

authentic.

it is sort of like “agree & amplify” but in a sexual and emotional way, not in a joking, sarcastic way.

and, if she was just sort of bullshitting, i don’t care. i am still being authentic and vulnerable. i am not afraid to be naked in front of her, with my huge dick right there.

don’t hide your cock.

calm assertive self love and confidence is the most attractive thing out there.