there is so much talk and debate about the nice guy, not just in red pill sites, but also on female dating sites, and in almost any relationship conversation.
i don’t want to think about my old “nice guy days” too much, cause i don’t want to dwell too much on past failures, past delusions, and past frustrations — instead i want to work on creating the correct mindset that will make me successful in life *and* successful with girls — but once in a while, i do think about the nice guy and his problems, and how i used to be one of them, and how weird it is to now see all the nice guy problems so clearly — but not before.
there has been a lot of shit written about the nice guy, some great, some terrible, i know that rollo wrote some good stuff recently, and i know that that blogger — shoot forgot her name — that asian girl — she wrote some interesting stuff too (update: that’s right, according to her, nice guys are misogynists. love it).
it just hit me, though, why the nice guy is getting so beat up now, more than before.
it’s that now, the nice guy offers NOTHING.
before — before all chicks had jobs — at least the nice guy offered his wallet. a “smart” chick, a savvy chick — or even better, in spanish they say a girl who is “lista” — sort of like ready, smart, savvy, on her game, quick, sharp, etc — a lista chick, maybe she doesn’t want to deal with bad boy drama, or more likely, she is already done with bad boy drama, she comes across a nice guy, and well, hmm, if he has some money, maybe it is worth it.
she needs to eat, after all.
but now that chicks are financially self sufficient, well, who the fuck needs a nice guy? nobody. he ain’t gonna give her the pussy tingle, so what is he good for.
NOTHING.
except maybe to be an emotional tampon, to listen to all her bullshit.
i think this is why nice guys are getting a worse and worse rep as time goes on.
it’s open season on the nice guy!
thank god i am not a nice guy any more.
This nails the issue quite succinctly. The nice guy is valuleless and disposable. Should he manage to wed one of these creatures, she can end the marriage at any time and exit with kids, cash and prizes. It’s a cunt’s world and nice guys just live in it.
“It’s a cunt’s world and nice guys just live in it.” haha funny. you know i just read cat’s friendzone faq, and she makes some great “pro-game” points.
http://angels-and-angles.tumblr.com/post/22698782991/friendzone-faq
gonna write about this.
Good post
Will be interesting to see how former nice guys react when sh*t hits the fan, economy crashes and women directly need the assistance of men once more.
Current economy is unsustainable. It favors women now as service based, but produces nothing of value. Next full blown recession will kill women’s independence.
What then? Nice guys won’t care. Every man for himself.
Female civil war over the few remaining power alphas who have an open spot in their harem. Women on street corners with signs saying ‘will f*ck for food’.
I’m not a psychic, I only play one on tv.