thank you steve and thank you krauser.
funny thing is, i get excited by shit like this, and then i immediately feel guilty for not going “deeper”, and finishing my self psychoanalysis by reading all of T’s stuff again — but fuck it, i need to do *something* to get excited, even if it is just a “patch.”
anyway, this video is fucking awesome.
it is making an impact:
steve published it on youtube on july 6.
krauser posted it here on aug 21.
heartiste wrote about it here on aug 31.
rollo wrote about it here on sept 6.
anyway, this shit is inspiring.
i am going to read up on steve and what his theories are, and gonna get more inspired, for this city too, but mostly for when i move to madrid.
i don’t even remember what i was going to say. oh yeah, two things.
1. i wrote my question on krauser’s blog.
this is what i wrote:
steve, i am 37, divorced, and have been learning pickup for two years with some success — even got one daygame kiss close after 30 minutes — but it still amazes me and inspires me to see the videos you london guys post. krauser’s videos have been inspiring me for years, and this video you posted is fucking awesome. hadn’t heard of you before, but am definitely gonna check out your stuff.
of course, for the timid beta guys, this all seems fake. they don’t understand the essence of masculinity, the essence of polarity, and the essence of attraction. yeah, magnets seem magical too, the way they attract stuff into their orbit, just like you attracted this hot colombian girl into your orbit.
anyway, my question is, where does “comfort” or “emotional connection” play into your style of pickup? do you find yourself ever needing an emotional connection to get the bangs?
back in the day, mystery warned about “fool’s mate”, and it not being rooted in real pickup. now, obviously the girl in the video was genuinely attracted to you — but that brings up my next question, do you feel that maybe because you are tall and muscular and good looking, that maybe you don’t need an emotional connection to get the bangs?
i do realize that a huge part of creating masculine attraction is in body language, eye contact, masculine intent, masculine energy, etc etc — stuff which you perfectly displayed in the video — and that most of us men could pull this off by getting in touch with our masculine core, but still, what would be your advice for more “regular” guys?
thanks man.
cause here i am working on EC and stuff, and steve is out there making out with a chick in under five minutes. but yeah, that’s my question. i am not steve. he looks to be about 6’2 and 200 lbs, and pretty good looking too. age maybe 27 or so. not bad.
that’s not me.
but anyway.
and 2. alright i forgot the second thing i was going to say about this video. i think i was just going to post it to remind myself to study it more, learn about it more, and get inspired by it.
alright.






As far as the emotional connection go, I’d add that whenever I’ve been very intensely sexual from the approach and of that comes from an honest raw attraction(the directness smoothed out by playfulness) that I actually connect better. Because both me and the girl are brought into potentially a very vulnerable place to express ourselves so openly, literally telling her I want to fuck her within the first minute, but since I only so it when I’m in a strong state it works well.
I’d say that the girl in Steves video probably feels like she was shown more of his true self than any guy whose chatted her up before. And that overcomes the lack of obvious ‘comfort’ type chat.