i get off at sol to hit the movie theatre, but in the metro station i see this very cute brunette sitting and playing with her phone. she is so damn cute. ideal girl next door look. she looks french. young and stylish.
i am not warmed up at all so i whiff and get annoyed at myself. i walk right past her on the stairs. damn it. my excuse is, i gotta go watch a movie. i hear myself say this. ha, that’s not true. i don’t even know what’s playing or when. and the idea is to have fun and not work. nobody says i need to go see a movie — it’s *good* for me to see a movie once a week, and it *is* something structural that i am trying to do, but banging a very cute french girl, that works too as far as having fun and enjoying life. i have no excuse. i go back down the stairs, and now the pressure is building. seated sets are hard, especially after 3 seconds x100 have passed. i am getting rusty, i am telling you. gotta get back to 10 approaches per week. so far in jan 2016 i’ve been doing about 3-4 per week.
anyway, long story short, i finally go up and talk to her, and i say about four words and of course her bf — or some dude — shows up. i actually wasn’t ready for this, i hadn’t experienced a bf interrupt in a while, so i quickly say “she looked nice” to the guy and walk away quickly. very embarrassing. i am very rusty.
When you’re talking to a girl and a guy shows up, stay there. Game him too. Finish your story or your joke and keep your boundary. There’s nothing awkward about it. The guy will attempt to match his dick with yours, let him, and amog him. Wait until the girl makes the pick, which will be an obvious move, like hugging and kissing the guy, that’s your cue. In some cases, if she likes you more than the other guy, she’ll use you to create jealousy and what not. If you are a better prospect she’ll pick you. Girls are like that. That situation could have ended with the other guy running and crying and you getting your dick wet. Again, girls are like that. We’ll never know because you ran away for no reason.
Funny thing is, you don’t even know if the guy was the boyfriend, but you gave him enough social validation that if he wasn’t, she probably still fucked him that night.
so yohami, my question is, do you really think i should do this, as opposed to just going to find another girl who is by herself?
or are you using this more as a general lesson that i should be more masculine and not back away from potential confrontation?